Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Birthday, Anniversary, And Boundaries…


I’ve not been in the mood to blog lately. I think my life has become borin’ and not worth repeatin’…  so I think I’ll just type.

Roy’s birthday was on Friday… The 13th!! I took him out to lunch at Dead Lobstah. Then since he bought me jewels for my birthday, it was only fair that I take him down and pick me out some more… for future reference of course. Our 20th Anniversary of our First Kiss is comin’ up and he needs to know what I want.

Don’t get all excited, he already has permission to buy a gun at the next Big Gun Show. I told him that would be fine to buy me a special gun for my 20th anniversary… or Jewels.

I’m not picky.

Let me throw this out for an opinion from the masses… If a woman calls your husband to wish him a happy birthday but doesn’t call you on your birthday, do you think it strange? Do you suspect there maybe something going on? That maybe she doesn’t know boundaries or rather what is proper in a friendship? Roy’s friends know the rules about wives. No one is to call me or attempt to ask things of me without him knowing it.

I don’t know how I feel about it… I’ve had him for 20 years!! I’m not givin’ Roy up!

So come outta the woodwork and tell me what you think?

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Pattie @ On Hollyhock Farm said...

Does he work with this wench? How did he become friends with her? If you are not friends with her or close with her, then a freekin' b-day card would have sufficed. I lasted 13 yrs. with my first and I found out when the jeweler called to say my diamond earrings were ready! They were NOT for me!
If he starts worrying about how he looks, starts going to the gym, working late and on weekends, start worrying.

Connie Weiss said...

The gun show?

I remember going to the gun show!

Who is this person that called Roy?

Date Girl said...

Hmm, who is this woman? I would be weirded out by that too, unless I knew that person really well and knew their story.

Sounds like Roy loves you a lot though, so I'm sure this is just an idiot woman who doesn't know boundaries.

Nicole said...

I love that, you know the anniversary of your first kiss!

Emmy said...

That is a little weird that she called- I personally cannot imagine calling any guy other than my brothers or dad on their birthdays.

Impulsive Addict said...

Well, she sounds evil. I would cut her.

Or ask why she's calling yo man! BUT, I would totally call M's bff, Mark, to wish him a happy birthday (but I'd also call his wife who is MY bff!)

Sounds fishy. She's got big girl balls.

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Heather's Happenings said...

I would not be happy about some girl calling my man to wish him a happy birthday. I went bat ass crazy over the birthday card hubby got one year from work where everyone signs. One of the office ladies ended her little message with a heart, I did not like that.

Amy said...

Ah that would definitely annoy me too. But I agree with the other comments, if he's not acting strange then I'm sure it's nothing. Happy almost 20th anniversary of your first kiss! Too cute!

Stacy Uncorked said...

I do the same thing - show my hubby specific jewels for future reference. ;)

I would think it's strange if a woman called my hubby on his birthday but not on mine. Do you both know her or is this someone only he knows? We had an issue with one of hubby's former girlfriends doing that. I finally had to let her know where the boundaries were since he wouldn't - but nothing was going on, so there's that. :)

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insomnia said...

Depends on the woman and the woman's character. I'd keep my eye on her...
Happy b-day to you and Roy!

Stacie said...

Hmmm, I think this whole woman calling thing needs to be expounded upon. We need more details before we can assess. Sounds fishy!

A Randomlicious Blog for the Soul said...

I think life gets boring in the winter time...winter sucks

Suzi said...

Unless she is friends with both of you, or is family, she has no business calling!! She needs to be informed that this is inappropriate!!
On a different note, you 2 are too cute. I love that you celebrate you first kiss!!

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Billie said...

I have to disagree with everyone. I have male friends that would not call my honey on his birthday to wish him Happy Birthday because they don't actually know him that well. They do call me though.

And absolutely nothing is going on between us.